How do I choose a therapist when there are so many to pick from? Here’s my short answer: pay attention to the person, not just the profile. In the first consultation call, notice whether talking feels easy, whether they can actually see you each week, and whether you walk away
Teen social media use over four hours a day is how more than half of young people now spend a normal day, and that is the number that should change how you set up the school year. Blue Shield of California asked 750 Gen Z youth about their lives in
Parental separation and children’s mental health are tightly linked in new Australian research, and the number is hard to look away from. Children who experience parental loss, a category that includes separation, a parent in custody, or a parent’s death, are about twice as likely to have a diagnosable mental
You already know the pattern. That is why a digital detox for depression and anxiety keeps crossing your mind. The phone is in your hand before you have decided to pick it up. You open one app to check one thing. Ten minutes later you could not name what you
You’ve been sitting at the laptop after everyone else signed off, and even though the work is actually finished, you still can’t quite leave it. Something still feels off, like if you walk away now a detail will drop and it will be on you. You feel it in your
You follow the self-care advice. You breathe deep. You move your body. You reach for tools that promise calm. Yet the tension returns like a tide that never fully recedes. I’m Dr. Connor McClenahan, and in my years of sitting with people in Pasadena who face this exact struggle, I’ve
Avoidance always backfires. We know this in our bones. When we put off that hard conversation with a partner or friend, we know the tension will continue to grow. Or the project we keep pushing to tomorrow turns into a panic that leaves us exhausted and ashamed. We see it
Disordered eating can feel exhaustingly stubborn. You’ve tried the meal plans. You’ve read the books. You’ve thought about getting a nutritionist, then feel flooded. Every day, you find yourself unable to change your eating patterns. The shame still shows up every time you eat, and you wonder if there’s any
Disordered eating sneaks into ordinary days as a set of rules and rituals around food that start to feel necessary just to keep the day moving smoothly. You wake up already running the mental math. “Skip breakfast and I’ll feel lighter, sharper, more in control.” By mid-morning a knot sits
If you are searching for how to heal OCD, chances are you already know the drill far too well. You open your eyes in the morning and before your feet even touch the floor your mind starts scanning for threats. Your chest tightens. Your hands feel clammy. The same “what