Why That Toxic Relationship is Created by the Pain You’re Trying to Avoid (And How to Break Free)
Certain relationships feel like a rerun of old wounds. Maybe it’s a partner whose constant criticism makes you feel small, just like a judgmental parent did in childhood. Or perhaps their helplessness leaves you frustrated and overburdened, echoing the abandonment from an unreliable caregiver. These “toxic” relationships aren’t accidents—they’re born from pains being desperately avoided. In fact, they come from