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Depression, Parenting

Four Hours of Teen Social Media Use Is Costing Sleep, Friends, and the School Year

Written by herecounselingAugust 28, 2026

Teen social media use over four hours a day is how more than half of young people now spend a normal day, and that is the number that should change how you set up the school year. Blue Shield of California asked 750 Gen Z youth about their lives in

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Depression, Parenting

Children of Separated Parents Face Nearly Double the Mental Health Risk

Written by herecounselingAugust 26, 2026

Parental separation and children’s mental health are tightly linked in new Australian research, and the number is hard to look away from. Children who experience parental loss, a category that includes separation, a parent in custody, or a parent’s death, are about twice as likely to have a diagnosable mental

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Person present on a porch after a digital detox for anxiety, phone face-down, looking at ease.
Anxiety, Depression

Your Phone Is Making the Depression Heavier. A Two-Week Digital Detox Can Lift It.

Written by herecounselingAugust 25, 2026

You already know the pattern. That is why a digital detox for depression and anxiety keeps crossing your mind. The phone is in your hand before you have decided to pick it up. You open one app to check one thing. Ten minutes later you could not name what you

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Man on a porch in late afternoon sun, at ease after closing the laptop, the positive vision of high-functioning anxiety
Anxiety, Depression

Your Anxiety Looks Like Productivity. That’s Why Everyone Thinks You’re Fine.

Written by herecounselingAugust 19, 2026

You’ve been sitting at the laptop after everyone else signed off, and even though the work is actually finished, you still can’t quite leave it. Something still feels off, like if you walk away now a detail will drop and it will be on you. You feel it in your

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Anxiety, Depression

[VIDEO] Why Anxiety Won’t Go Away: How to Listen to Anxiety for Long Term Peace

Written by herecounselingJune 4, 2026

You follow the self-care advice. You breathe deep. You move your body. You reach for tools that promise calm. Yet the tension returns like a tide that never fully recedes. I’m Dr. Connor McClenahan, and in my years of sitting with people in Pasadena who face this exact struggle, I’ve

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Perfectionism and OCD in Lawyers
Anxiety, Depression

Perfectionism and Lawyers: Why it’s Actually Hurting Your Productivity and How to Finally Break Free

Written by Connor McClenahanMarch 9, 2026

You’ve just spent 3 hours re-reading the same brief. Yet something still feels “off.” You can’t shake the nagging fear that one missed detail could ruin everything. You look at the clock and you panic: you can’t afford to keep re-working this detail. You’re worried one small mistake could lead

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deep breathing isn't working to treat addiction
Depression

Addiction isn’t About Genes, It’s About Shame: How to Re-Understand Addiction with Psychoanalysis

Written by herecounselingOctober 2, 2025

You’re wondering why you or a loved one struggles with addiction. Usually a quick internet search gives two tidy yet disappointing answers: (1) It’s genetic, or (2) it’s self-destructive behavior. But you know from experience addiction is much more complex. This article explores how addiction can arise from shame. We’ll

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executive with Poor sleep hygiene
Anxiety, Depression

Terrible Sleep Habits? How Executives Can Stop Destructive Late Nights and Actually Rest

Written by Connor McClenahanAugust 15, 2025

You’re exhausted, but when bedtime rolls around, they just can’t let go. Instead of drifting off, you linger in the wee hours, scrolling through your phones or binge-watching shows that don’t even hold your interest. It’s not that you don’t know better—you do. You feel the pull to sleep, to

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Anxiety, Couples, Neurology, Parenting, Podcast

Attachment Styles: How to Heal the Hidden Lens Shaping Your Relationships

Written by Connor McClenahanMarch 13, 2025

Attachment styles profoundly impact the way you view yourself and your world. Have you ever wondered why you react the way you do in relationships? Whether it’s a romantic partnership, a friendship, or even a professional connection, the way you form and maintain bonds with others is deeply influenced by

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Depression, Neurology, Podcast

[VIDEO] Motivation 101: How to Rewire Your Brain to Get Things Done

Written by Connor McClenahanFebruary 28, 2025

Have you ever found yourself staring at a to-do list, feeling completely overwhelmed and unable to start even the simplest task? Maybe your house is a mess, your inbox is overflowing, or that big project is looming like a dark cloud. You’re not alone. Many of us struggle with motivation,

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