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Managing emotions

Feeling Nothing? The Truth About Emotional Numbness in Men

Written by Jake MaxwellFebruary 18, 2025

Why Do Some Men Feel Emotionally Numb? You find yourself going through the motions, unable to feel much of anything. Maybe you know you should be happy, sad, or excited but instead, you feel…nothing. Emotional numbness is a silent struggle many men experience, often without realizing it. Rather than feeling

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People Pleasing: The Root Cause and How To Set Boundaries

Written by Jake MaxwellNovember 13, 2024

People pleasing can feel like a constant emotional tug-of-war. It’s exhausting always putting others’ needs before your own, afraid that addressing your needs will lead to conflict or disappointment. You might agree to help out even when you’re already overwhelmed, or go out of your way to make others comfortable,

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Managing emotions

Procrastinating: Understand Root Causes and How to Stop Now

Written by Jake MaxwellOctober 23, 2024

Procrastinating leaves you feeling frustrated, guilty, and stuck, especially when it becomes a pattern in your life. We all procrastinate sometimes, whether it’s putting off an important task, delaying a difficult conversation, or avoiding a responsibility we find overwhelming. But why do we put things off, even when we know

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Managing emotions

How to Best Help Your Husband Overcome Emotional Avoidance

Written by Jake MaxwellOctober 9, 2024

It’s heartbreaking when you can’t reach your partner on an emotional level. You want to help your husband overcome emotional avoidance, but you feel loneliness and confusion, watching them shut down during important conversations or avoid talking about their feelings. You might find yourself feeling helpless, wondering why they seem

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Managing emotions

Overthinking: It’s Hidden Danger & Tips To Unlock True Healing

Written by Jake MaxwellSeptember 18, 2024

Overthinking is an exhausting cycle. Here you are again, replaying a conversation in your mind, dissecting every word, and analyzing what you could have said differently. Or maybe you’re diving into endless research about a problem, trying to think your way out of discomfort, only to feel more stuck. You’re

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Managing emotions

Defeating Perfectionism: How to Reclaim Joy and Embrace Imperfection

Written by Jake MaxwellSeptember 4, 2024

On the surface, being a “perfectionist” might not seem so bad. You want to always be doing your very best. That’s not so bad, right? Unfortunately, the reality of long-standing perfectionism can end up doing more harm than good. Perfectionism often leads to stress, anxiety, and feeling like you are

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Managing emotions

Conquer Self-Sabotage: Overcome your Frustration and Actually Accomplish your Goals

Written by Jake MaxwellAugust 24, 2024

Self-sabotage can be incredibly frustrating. It might look like procrastinating on an important task, talking yourself out of a great opportunity, or setting unrealistically high standards that you could never meet. If this sounds familiar, you’ve likely found yourself caught in the cycle of self-sabotage. It can be frustrating and

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Managing emotions

Depersonalization: The Real Causes + How to Cope

Written by Jake MaxwellJuly 17, 2024

Depersonalization can be disorienting. You suddenly feel as if you are floating above your body, or somehow observing your own thoughts. It may make you feel lost, disturbed, and confused about what is real. You’re left struggling to understand what’s happening and how to regain a sense of normalcy. In

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Managing emotions

Emotional Outbursts in Men: Causes, Emotional Repression, and Stress Relief Techniques

Written by Jake MaxwellJuly 8, 2024

Emotional outbursts can be overwhelming. All of a sudden, you find yourself emotionally overloaded and blowing up on others. As a result, feelings of guilt, confusion, and regret flood in. Meanwhile, you’re left not knowing what to do or how to stop these moments from happening. Emotional outbursts, often linked

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Managing emotions

Avoiding Feelings Has a High Cost: How to Increase Emotional Expression

Written by Jake MaxwellJune 24, 2024

Avoiding feelings is something we often do under stress. For example, when life feels overwhelming, your instinct is to avoid the problems or “check out” from stressful situations. By avoiding difficult emotions, you think you’re sparing yourself from the pain. This is a common belief, and you’re not alone in

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